Love can be "measured" mean?

The definition of love: true love, is a man and a woman based on certain material conditions and common ideals, in their hearts against each other to form the most sincere admiration, and are eager to become his lifelong partner each other the strongest, most stable, The most specific feelings.

In cases where there is love, love several basic types of capital letters：

1, helpless love is mainly to force a reluctant but for some reason, such as age, condition and other factors and acceptable. This love is plain.
2, for sex and love that do not have to say, it is obviously a sex and sexy come. This love is romantic.
3, falling into love can also be said Rijiushengqing love bar. Mainly due to live a long time had a direct reliance on the situation, so to love each other can be said that due to some moral values, emotions, etc. Nianjiu caused. This love is long.
4, like and love this is the most common, because the other side and hope you like something, whether it is quality, money, stature, status or want him any other aspect of the Hello, want to get each other, rely on each other to obtain well-being. Themselves also enjoy the possession of something happy. On this basis, the love to pay is to be combined with each other, but certain conditions must be based on the above basis. Therefore, this combination of love is universal and realistic. This love is happy.
5. "Real Love" This is a very rare, this love is selfless, excluding returns, pay, high ideals and hope for human expression. This is a great yearning for love, implies a class, such as the mother-like love, gentle girl, men's feelings of tolerance and Zhi Zhuo. This is a good human nature and the great ideas people have, and it is the most valuable rare long-term, pure and natural love. It has a lot of love, of course, means that people will pay more with the harvest, but some clever, and wise people who can control their feelings, and will not waste. However, if the situation were trapped inevitable hurt, love, in this materialistic era can be said to be ideal, unrealistic, but in mind is the most beautiful. This love is great.

Love can be "measured" mean?

Social psychologists are given an affirmative answer, and design of a specific scale, shown in Table 9-1. Here a total of nine declarative sentences, according to your
Persons of concern to the actual situation, given your feelings, if very much agree on the total nine points, if strongly disagree, we count 0 points, ambiguous on the count 5 points.


1. I have full confidence in X, anything can talk to X.
2. In order to X, let me do anything I will be.
3. If you can not X-together, I would be very painful.
4. Lonely, I first want to see who is X.
5.X interests are one of the things I care most about.
Any errors 6.X I can forgive.
7. I feel duty-bound to make X happy,.
8. If X trust me, talk to my own affairs, I would feel very very happy.
9. If life is not an X, I would be very difficult.


Clearly, the total score closer to 81, the person you care about the more important to you, if the total score not much larger than 9, then the person does not matter to you. This scale is not perfect, but the couple will really be very high scores than low-scoring couple feelings to be much more harmonious.