Writer Jorge said: the beginning of a woman apart from her husband nothing. But she soon got her husband, she must be in the world all the other things.
American psychologist and marriage expert, Dr. Bang Niai Rockwell select three wives to investigate, test their loyalty to the marriage. They were married nine years at home, a wife, mother of 30-year-old Elena, married 4 years, 29-year-old Natasha and married a model year and a half, 29-year-old painter Tuoni Ya. Three
Wife and children
Said that they were loyal to marriage and family, had never deceived her husband. However, in the way of life on their review, the experts agreed that - at home, most likely a wife, mother a housewife Elena "trouble." Their theory is - "in a secure marriage of a woman's most vulnerableDerailment”。
Perhaps because --
A woman in marriage the security crisis due to the lack of neglect prevention;
Security in marriage a woman has a higher degree of freedom;
Security in marriage a woman be more eager to wind and waves ... ...
Can be described as fertile ground for the security of marriage, not only nourish the woman, the breeding of happiness, but also a woman ready to make love Destructive Enthusiasm ambitions.
Another shuttle after another in a relationship, love why it always filled up again dig is not empty, quickly surging. The human heart is a bottomless pit, most people are the same, just like love's face, no one behind the encouragement and should not be a love-love, impulse, your fear of lonely and desperate to add ... ...
9 kinds of "Love Alice"
1 marriage 3 years or seven years, his wife
Example: husband and I married seven years, if not emotional smuggling, I do not know whether our marriage can continue.
Married life when I felt I was suffocating me, I will be a bit of drama, some real articles, there are only Plato articles. But every time they "leave" seems to me better to return and stay at his side.
Analysis: the length of marriageable age to some extent determines the degree of emotional derailment. The so-called three years, the seven-year itch is "derailment" harbinger. With the disappearance of romantic passion and plain tedious beginning of life, women of this innate feeling, like animals, like oxygen desire a romantic passion, some people call it "emotional winds", it seems that the only way people can better woman return home enjoying calm and affection.
2 Wife Strong's wife, husband's weak family
Example: I work normally very busy and can not take into account the family and children, so her husband became my good logistics. Although I earn a lot more than the husband, but in no way look down on him, family division of labor is different. However, because of their work, I often come into contact with a number of successful career men, they are really good, I often walk by the river is inevitable that wet shoes.
Analysis: In the relatively high economic status of women in families, wives usually have greater freedom and initiative. Increase in their social, temptation has also increased, and such women are usually increases with the charm of years more, so he sticks the fate of blossoms are even greater.
3 favorite wife by her husband
Example: I met several women who in the initial contacts with me when explicit: She has a love of her husband and a happy home. I believe they say is true. They say that these First, warning each other, do not expect that they will give you a divorce, the other is "Do not go to destroy their family." The beginning when I greatly puzzled why even have taken a better feeling to go outside and "Rolling Green" (Cantonese man derailed called "Rolling Red", a woman called "Rolling Green")? Only later did I understand that a woman is never emotionally satiation. Such women are usually agile handling things will not be tangled up with you, find the happy marriage of a woman to play emotional games safer.
Analysis: the husband because of love in every possible way, "affixed his wife," and this behavior is often to form a centrifugal force to allow his wife to escape her husband care and concern. Love is blind, love her until an unlimited number of conniving at her, and the connivance of the result may be to lose her. So, too much a man loves his wife to be appropriate "dry," she will help your marriage.
Four great vitality and the wife of
Example: I was a vigorous woman, why do not have strong sexual desire, because I not only have high demands on sex, but also have a high emotional demands. Like "Zhou Yu's Train" in Zhou Yu, and now I am running in Wuhan and Shanghai, between the lover and her husband, it is a burden, but it is a passion outbreak.
Analysis: people have different, and some women is that a man's life, they believe in and abide by the sole and everlasting and unchanging. Some, however, does not belong to a woman born a man, so they continue to blossom, but not necessarily the result.
5 are not the wife of sexual satisfaction
Example: When I found her husband more and more things on the bed are not interested in, I thought to find a sexual partner.
Analysis: sex life is to maintain and ensure the coordination of a faithful marriage, another touchstone. Many marriages defeat at the "sex", because sexual relations between husband and wife occupy an increasingly important position.
6, the wife has just given birth
Example: When I was back to work after giving birth, find themselves not sentimental, but more plentiful, full of flavor. Sure enough, the units will come Xiaoqi quickly fell in love with me, and I see it as a review of their charm. It makes me self-confidence and happiness.
Analysis: a woman's fertility can be described as a complete change. Some women from heart yew after the children, not themselves. While some women suddenly see the light - they are due to childbirth is more bigger and bigger and more feminine because of motherhood, as a new life even more incentive and Guanghua.
7 Suddenly the wife of a lot of spare time
Example: the work of her husband to Australia for six months, I found a lot of time without repudiation. So I had a courtship, and from online developed into line. I know that he is just a fill, but I must do in order to过好每一天.
Analysis: more women than men have lost its loneliness. Only in the affairs of men want is a physical encounter, while women want is a spiritual encounter.
8 on a business trip wife
Example: because the working relationship between the year I had half of their time outside travel. People of non-vegetation, especially married women, it is natural to have some physiological needs. So, I occasionally occur with clients or colleagues Yan Yu. We all know that can not be taken seriously.
Analysis: go out to rely on friends, the revolution by consciously.
9, when the wife of a fit of anger away
Example: That night I quarreled with her husband, angrily, when I gave the university has always been to pursue my Chang playing the phone. That night I went to his room opened. Although I later regret it happening, but everything is irreversible. Fortunately, her husband is not aware of it all.
Analysis: women are most likely to bloom away, and her acts of revenge are often simply poor - devoted himself to go. So, when you and your wife, when angry, please do not force her to go, otherwise you will be her "derailed" accomplice
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