Between men and women, the psychological games

Do you think this dress I wear what looks fat not fat? "When a woman asking this question you, you are doomed," doomed. "Whether you what to say, the answer is wrong. She thought had certainly been the right answer. If you said a white lie, telling her "You do not seem a bit fat," she know that you are simply lying. At this point, inevitably means that some punishment for two reasons: first, because you lied, and second, because you have noticed that she The walk-type body. Thus, the choice of how to answer, you can not win the Iraqis affection. why women are keen on these psychological game? The reason is simple, women hope that through these games, to master the control of the relations between the sexes.



Men for women in general are often ignorant of these psychological games. However, because sooner or later to enter the game itself, then you'd better want to understand these games. Let us look at three different times --- acquaintance stage, the dating stage, the love stage, the women usually play these games, their hearts Thinking again what is?



Between men and women, the psychological games



　　Acquaintance stage

Game 1: She dressedSexy, Performance was a bit crazy.



What was she thinking: this case, there is no logic at all. She also knew, according to the nature of men, they will definitely staring at her. Then she will move to their normal and natural and punished them. So you do not see men dressed sexy woman when they could not bear to put away the eyes, which may result in loss of your great opportunity.



Game 2: She has sold more than passion and customs, even though she did not intend to face this man with an appointment or further development, she still made some rather provocative means of the suggestive movements.

What was she thinking: she wants to catch your attention, in order to ensure that they remain attractive to both men.



Game 3: Even though she was not the intention of dating with you, but she will leave phone number, or leave your phone number, but certainly not call you.

What was she thinking: This is the power of another bid. She just wanted to assure ourselves that she can with their own unique womenAllureControl of men.



Game 4: Even though she was very happy with you dating, but she chose to turn your date, or do not return your call.

What was she thinking: Sometimes it is only the pursuit of gender dominance of the game, sometimes indicating that she want you to pursue her, to her fascination with her to prove that you how. If you're hooked, and she knows that he has completely mastered the control, you will never hear the crackling of her whip.



　　Dating Stage

Game 1: In the dating of the last minute, she abruptly canceled appointments, or is it simply does not show up, even after the sentence if there is no apology.



What was she thinking: she realized that by the pursuit of that party in the relations between the sexes in control, she would like to ensure that you are right at the outset that she picked up the pace. Many women play this game because they wanted to see this man get into how deep in the end.



Game 2: dating, she was late, or when you go downstairs to pick her up, she was not ready. Moreover, such cases are not uncommon.

What was she thinking: She would like to find out how high your degree of patience. She wanted to become a leading role in accounting for a party, make sure you are being actively pursued her, and let you have uncertainty in the mind of your impression of her in the end. If she let you wait, it would send a clear signal: she believed their time valuable than you.



Game 3: dating, she always choose the most expensive restaurants, the most expensive bar to see the most popular films, of course, she hoped that you can readily put all the bills are paid.



What was she thinking: She realized that you also know that if you're not willing to pay the bills, you will not have the opportunity to further develop her. To make matters worse, she may also frankly say so, she did not want to have any intimate relationship with you, and then continue with impunity to continue to use your money. At this point, if you have already made it clear that she wanted to go further, then, congratulations, and your credit card will soon be smoke.



Game 4: in front of you in her attitude toward intimacy with other men.

What was she thinking: When she was done, she is testing you in the end how much they like her, and she would also like to prove to you that she is a very charismatic man, waiting to recover her in person there is a lot, if you do not want to eat ginkgo, it is best to follow its advice.



Game 5: Her performance in very changeable, one would say so, one would say so.

For example: She will tell you where to go or whatever we do, whether it does not matter, then when you make a decision, she was a night sullenly, complaining that you do the "wrong" choice.



What was she thinking: she just wants to be able to pick the wrong person you are, and no other meaning. Of course, you simply can not know the "right" choices?



　Love Stage

Game 1: She act arbitrarily, for their own interests happy, in total disregard of your feelings.



What was she thinking: she is testing you in the end, "how men", she has dominated much space. At the same time, she is bound to arise in the bickering for the future ready "ammunition" in case one day you will mad and furious.



Game 2: She would like you to read her thoughts, including herHotWang, her favorite restaurant, she had encountered in the day what matters, and so on.



What was she thinking: She would like to know that you understand her, to listen to her thoughts. You should like have a magic-like, we did not have openings will be able to accurately guess she was she thinking, she needs what and in what way she would like to be. Usually, if you "failed" the case, she would be punished for you, often punishment.



Game 3: She was furious, showing unhappy look, like the Kingdom by the Sea.



What was she thinking: She would like to know how much you can endure her temper.



Game 4: She immersed in the contradictions of the ideological struggle, on one hand you want a real man to make a decision of thePartnerAt the same time, we hope he was a taste of "urban America-shaped man," like to see a romantic comedy.



What was she thinking: She tells you want you can show more emotion, but when you do, she will say that you "soft." This is another example that she would like to prevail in the relations between the sexes in the evidence, would make you feel if he was not her mind, "Mr. Right", then she would make breaking up.



Game 5: She make you feel has been difficult to control their own and then suddenly stopped everything, or restrict the scale of intimacy between you.

What was she thinking: This is a good example to prove that the sexual that regard, her ability to control your relationship. She may constantly play this game and hope from you to get more material things.